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This Mentor teaches about power: financial, material, psychological or political power. He is in complete control at all times, and is very skilled at controlling everyone
around him. He accomplishes everything he sets out to achieve with single-minded and clear, focused detachment.
Some examples of this masculine powerhouse--one who always gets what he wants--are the public personae of Bill Clinton, Sean Connery, Michael Douglas, and Arnold Schwarzenegger.
The characters they portray in public are determined, successful, multifaceted, and even ruthless in accomplishing their goals.
Getting in Touch with Your Mentor
Write in incredible detail every facet of what you want in your ideal relationship--every detail. Then, review it daily. Add and subtract features of the description
but relentlessly pursue what you want.
This Mentor is ruthless--often heartless--but always successful in getting what he wants. When you design what you want, make sure your heart and the hearts of the others
in your goal relationship are made joyful by what you will attain.
Your Mentor's Special Gift to You
Your Mentor will teach you to be assertive, to set boundaries to succeed in your world, create partnerships, never to be a "door-mat." He will teach you to value yourself,
to have confidence in yourself, and to get what you want--on your terms. Receiving this Mentor helps you to stand up for yourself! Never compromise! Define what you want and
go get it!
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Take some time to re-invent your goal. What are you looking for? What would make you
happy? The clearer your intention, the more clearly you "see" what you want, and the clearer your journey to that goal.
This is a very important time for you to pause, look at the dynamics of your life, refresh yourself and then look for the radiance within yourself before proceeding. Harmony,
balance and peacefulness are the qualities of this deepening.
Think of what we popularly know about Gandhi, the great man who led the people of India in their non-violent struggle for equal rights and separation from England's domination.
Frequently, Gandhi would retreat to think about what to do--to find the right response to England and to the many different factions in India. In these times of quiet reflection,
he found the right response to help create the balanced peace that powerfully led them to self-rule.
Gandhi's public life provided a model for many brave people who have followed. Martin Luther King, Jr., and even the anarchist Malcolm X found non-violence and balance to
be the optimum path.
You, too, must move to a place of unselfishly calling for the action that will yield the right result in your quest. The Message here is to develop love, compassion and harmony.
Find your center of harmony and stay focused on that balancing point. You need to make sure you properly use your emotions and not let them run you.
Beware of becoming isolated or dependent or too busy. Furthermore, beware of becoming distracted by trifles such as jealousy, dishonesty and substance abuse, obsessions,
doubting your own worth, fussiness, or possessiveness. All of these are vanities that derail success.
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With crayons or markers or even pen and pencil, draw pictures of how
your favorite people resolved their conflicts, and then draw how you
will resolve the inevitable difficulties you will face.
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