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You feel "stuck", just as
must this picture shows, because you are stuck. Actually you're really just waiting in what seems to be an inflexible position. Maybe you got
hurt the last time. Be honest enough with yourself to know that you are hanging back. If you are not conscious about your fear, you will feel vaguely anxious, fearful, and
you may project those ambiguous feelings onto others. Without awareness, you just feel STUCK!
Think of what the public thinks they know about Prince Charles in the world. Without criticizing him, his life has shown a difficulty with commitment. His commitment to his
wife, his sons and even his lover often have waivered. In all the areas of his life, he seems to be in limbo. All of us spend some time in limbo. This time of waiting is not
unlimited, but it also is not unpredictable. Accommodate the wait. The best way to use this time is to learn and demonstrate patience.
There is an attitude called "divine complacency," where a person behaves well and then simply accepts conditions beyond that person's control. It is an attitude of trust,
faith, and patience--a place of grace. You now can access that grace-full attitude and gain a lot during this time of waiting. When ready, we move on. In the meantime, we must
cultivate trust and faith that the Universe will always give us what we need.
Beware of boredom and the threat of aloofness while maintaining your independence. Don't become a prisoner of your own condition. Stay in touch and vulnerable.

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